Mental Sadism, Humiliation, and Degradation

Training a Domme

2012-01-31T02:00:00.000-08:00

Training Point - Forced Same Sex Humiliation

One of my favorite humiliation techniques to put straight female subs through is forcing them do a sex acts with another female. For some heterosexual women they find doing anything sexual with another member of their gender to be disgraceful, repulsive and very degrading. It can be so emotional crushing that it makes for great humiliation. To do same sex humiliation correctly you must keep pushing her to do more and more sex acts until she reaches her breaking point. If she’s comfortable with doing cunnilingus make her do anilingus if that doesn’t bother her you push her to accept receiving a golden shower or sucking toes or licking the bottom of the other woman’s feet. Make her do whatever disgusting sex acts it takes to get her into a humiliating mindset. Just keep pushing until she cracks. It might become more degrading to her if she is forced to verbally acknowledge her actions to you and the other woman. At times I have bought the most confident female sub to tears when she is lead by me to be the source of satisfaction of the other woman with no regard to the mental stress that she may be experiencing. When done correctly it can be very emotional sadistic leading to deep disgusted feeling about her self. As a mental sadist that exactly where I want to take a heterosexual female sub in a forced same sex humiliation session. I love watching the sub wilting in the shame of what I just made her do. There is always a breaking point. That is what brings me joy.

LadyJ experienced same sex humiliation early on in our relationship when she was serving as my sub. When I started training her to become a Pro Domme it was the first type of humiliation she wanted try to do to a male. Not having ever dominated a male she was on her own on how to transfer what she learned from me. Once she was given the opportunity she stepped up and passed the challenge. She achieved her goal of making him feel totally humiliated.

A full copy of this video can be obtain for $15 by contacting me at the DADDYK link at the top right hand corner of the blog..
I have a NiteFlirt account and for $1.99 a minute I am willing to talk with male Dominants about training techniques to control and dominate female subs/slaves/sluts.

For the same price I willing to discretely harshly humiliate and degrade females on the phone and/or talk about anything that you are curious about. Nothing you have to say will bother me. And you remain anonymous.

Degradation

2012-01-18T21:16:00.000-08:00

Daddy will be in Vegas this week at the AVN conference. He is always interested in the adult industry and the direction it is headed. It should be a good time for DaddyK. In the meantime I’ll assure His followers He is alive and well and post a new “De” word.

Degradation

1 . great humiliation brought about by loss of status, reputation, or self-esteem
2. the act of humiliating somebody, causing him or her a loss of status, reputation, or self-esteem

When looking for something interesting to write today I searched “degradation quotes.” One of the first Google came up with was :

“Man cannot degrade woman without himself falling into degradation; he cannot elevate her without at the same time elevating himself. Alexander Walker

When DaddyK does a humiliation scene I feel the effect is the opposite of what is stated in this quote. He is quite elevated knowing the female is in a distressed state. The Master is always (or should be) in the elevated state regardless if he is degrading or elevating the submissive. Of course people can disagree; I’d love to hear how others take this quotation.

The Marquis De Sade may have said it best:

The degradation which characterizes the state into which you plunge him by punishing him pleases, amuses, and delights him. Deep down he enjoys having gone so far as to deserve being treated in such a way. -- Marquis De Sade

tawana

Training a Domme

2011-12-05T14:23:00.001-08:00

Training Point- Using Degradation And Dehumanization

There are all forms of humiliation that I like to give to female subs. Among my favorite is puppy play humiliation. There is something special about making the female into a compliant little puppy. Mistress babybitch as my personal live-in young slut learned early on about my interest in her being a pet. Plus she saw me do horribly humiliating pet training sessions with other females. So when her Pro Domme training to become LadyJ started she was already up to speed on using pet play to dehumanize. She naturally like humiliating other people male or female so it came easy. Her panties would get wet from watching me degrade other females in our home. Although at this stage in her life I had taught her everything she knew about humiliation and degradation she put her own twist on how it was applied to a male. Proving that most domination methods are transferable from female subs to male subs but probably not in the same way. She knew that most sub males crave a dominant female’s pussy. So in her way of employing the techniques I taught her she added the idea of using denial to control . She created a want of her and then use rejection to get the sub to beg. I make female subs beg all the time but usually they are begging me to stop something that I’m doing to them. She used begging almost in a opposite way in that he was begging to have her do something he wanted. In my opinion rejection methods probably work better on males. I taught her the benefits of using humiliation but never having humiliated a male the type was her own to decided. She decided on her own to use panty humiliation and feminization along with the dehumanization of puppy pet. Those are two forms of humiliation that I would never employ as a straight Dom. Mistress babybitch was very creative in taking an idea and making it her own. She keep total control of the male in the session and was on her to becoming the Pro Domme known as LADYJ

A full copy of this video can be obtain for $15 by contacting me at the DADDYK link at the top right hand corner of the blog. I have a NiteFlirt account and for $1.99 a minute I am willing to talk with male Dominants about training techniques to control and dominate female subs/slaves/sluts.

For the same price I willing to discretely harshly humiliate and degrade females on the phone and/or talk about anything that you are curious about. Nothing you have to say will bother me. And you remain anonymous.

Training a Domme

2011-12-05T10:57:00.001-08:00

Training Point-Demanding Acknowledgement

As a straight male Dominant I only interact with females. I consider any direct play with sub males to be an abomination and I extremely detest that type of domination. As an advocate of male superiority and authority. So I am not a big fan of females dominating males. I personally see FemDom as being out of order. However it’s not up to me to control other peoples fetishes.

As an experience Dom I have had the opportunity to train several females into becoming Pro Dommes. I do believe that the techniques I deploy on females can be transferable to male subs as well, just not done by me. One of earliest trainees was my young live-in sub girl friend at the time. She wanted to pursue a career as a Pro Domme. As her Master I had given her the name babybitch to label her as a young slut. She had watched me train several other females plus got her own daily training. She was a very quick learner of my techniques. When it came to her dominating others she mimics many of my techniques since at the time that was that she knew. As you watch this video you will see her employing my method of forcing a sub to acknowledge his predicament.

Having the sub give acknowledgement is the main domination technique emphasize in this clip. She continuously made the sub male acknowledge how pathetic he was. She frequently forcefully interrogated him into giving her the answers she wanted to hear too confusing questions. An intimidation technique I often use on a female sub’s mind to create mental distress and confusion. Her use of a mirror is very similar to my use of a mirror with female subs such as pigwhore. Mirrors remove any chance for a sub to denying they don’t know what is happening to them. In this first clip of three you will see her take control of the session with strong voice commands. She used my labeling techniques with verbal humiliation. I had schooled her prior to the session to focus on taking and keeping control, humiliate and degrade the sub.

I observed and videotaped the session but had no other involvement. I left it up to her as to how to accomplish the goals with I set out for her. Her use of restricting eye contact is a method she developed on her own since I don’t do much of that with female subs. I actually love seeing fear in the eyes of female subs. I wanted to see if she had the right demeanor to dominate men and if she could be creative enough to manage a 1 hour session. This was her first training session with a male and she did quite well as Mistress BabyBitch. She later went on to have a successful Pro Domme business as Lady J.

A full copy of this video can be obtain for $15 by contacting me at the DADDYK link at the top right hand corner of the blog..I have a NiteFlirt account and for $1.99 a minute I am willing to talk with male Dominants about training techniques to control and dominate female subs/slaves/sluts.

For the same price I willing to discretely harshly humiliate and degrade females on the phone and/or talk about anything that you are curious about. Nothing you have to say will bother me. And you remain anonymous.

Dehumanization

2011-11-27T21:43:00.001-08:00

Dehumanization is defined by Encarta Dictionary as to make somebody less human by taking away his or her individuality, the creative and interesting aspects of his or her personality, or his or her compassion and sensitivity toward others. Or to take away the qualities or features of something that make it able to meet human needs and desires or enhance people's lives. Dehumanization starts by removing personal identification. We see it often in Dominant/submissive relationships, only in extremely rare occasions have I ever been called my name during play. It is slut, whore, cunt, bitch, etc., but not my name. This reduces my sense of value immediately. Although I most definitely know my Master is superior it reiterates this fact instantly creating intensity for a given situation, whatever that may be.

Lifestyle play incorporates dehumanization in many ways, puppy play, and/or objectification such as human furniture (or Forniphilia) to name a few. Throughout history dehumanization has been used in both love and war. Women being inferior to men throughout most of history have put them in the position of being objects for men to use. This has changed as society has modernized and determined women are higher beings than dogs yet many of us crave being dehumanized at some level by our Dominants. It leaves us with the warm glow of total surrender when we achieve the desired level, rather it be panting like a puppy, oinking like a pig, or being the perfect footstool.

Dehumanization is the process by which members of a group of people assert the "inferiority" of another group through subtle or overt acts or statements. (Freire 1993) I believe many Dominants dehumanize, rather it be overt or subtle. DaddyK tends to have a fondness for puppy play, His video’s and posts certainly reflect His love of humiliation therefore turning his subs into puppy pets seems logical to me.

DaddyK is still alive, well, is working on new endeavors and of course another superb blog post. The following video clip is puppy play with past and present sub/slaves. We hope you all enjoy watching it and let us know what you think. We LOVE comments!

tawana (DaddyK's slave)

Debauch

2011-11-19T10:24:00.001-08:00

Debauchery

The “De” word this week is debauchery, mainly because I love how it sounds. I hear it and think “bad bad, but Ohhh so fun.” For me it is another one debauchery equates to something my mind thinks isn’t good but would still bring immense pleasure. I often refer to this as “cunt betrayal”, my mind goes “that’s just sick” as I casually determine if anyone will notice the wet spot I am probably making from shear excitement.

Webster’s defines debauchery as:

1. a archaic : to make disloyal

b: to seduce from chastity

2 a: to lead away from virtue or excellence

b: to corrupt by intemperance or sensuality

The word debauchery is defined as: a gathering that involves excessive drinking and promiscuity. The word has its origins with the old French word Debauch, which means to lure a man away from his purpose. The word debauchery is seen in the New Testament, Ephesians 5:18???And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the spirit.(reference.com)

DaddyK could be referred to as a “debaucher” .One example is PigWhore went to Him to be trained as a slut, she had aspirations of being a porn star. It was clear to DaddyK she was not porn star material so He turned her into PigWhore, the sub shown on several clips on this blog. You can see her cowering in fear and crying from severe humiliation, a far cry from a sensual sex slut. DaddyK often uses verbal humiliation to change a sub/slaves perception of themselves. He finds an obvious trait that, usually one that is not a positive personality factor, and capitalizes on it. Ultimately the sub will be forced to admit she is stupid, a failure, a cheating wife, a pisslover, etc.

Ednita wanted to be a good girl, one who pleased DaddyK and fit into His family dynamics. She was of legal age yet young enough to be a blank canvas. She did not have any BDSM experience until she was introduced to DaddyK. Ednita was not an easy victim; His debauchery did work as she eventually admitted she had failed. Her stubbornness comes through far better than her desire to please. To me this proves debauchery works better on some people, others are highly resistant. I believe most Masters/Dominants who have trained numerous submissives have run across someone who simply sticks to higher values than a sub/slave who wants to please regardless what the cost. To please is the ultimate goal, to know we please is the only reward needed.

Debauchery is a method used to mold a sub/slave into what the Master desires. Although it sounds evil I believe it is one of the first steps a Master will use. The methods increase over time until the sub/slave is molded into a product the Master has created and is proud of. By definition Debauchery is not positive, it means to lead away from one’s purpose yet in the world of BDSM it is a desirable effect. Especially with a Dominant such as DaddyK who thrives on influencing a submissive into the dark side, to do things they never imagined doing.

As usual, please leave feedback and let U/us know what you like to see. DaddyK is working on a post with a new video. It should be posted soon. my posts are not meant to be a replacement, it is merely our attempt at mainstream blogging and to let people know the blog isn't dead. “drider” the winner of the PigWhore video has not responded yet. Please do so by Thanksgiving or we will choose a new winner.

We also want to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving; if you are traveling we wish you safe travels. If you are going to some warm island with sunshine please do not share this with me. I personally would be very thankful for some sunshine. Sunshine, sand, and surf would be even better. I am thankful for many things though, of course a wonderful warm caring Master and a big fluffy dog to warm my feet to name a few.

tawana

Happy Birthday Mental Play

2011-11-13T22:36:00.001-08:00

Mental Play is now officially a year old. The coming year will bring about a couple new things. DaddyK will be starting "Ask Daddy a Question" soon. The person who asks the question chosen to be answered will win a small prize. Please keep checking back for more info.

i also added "love", "like" and "hate" buttons on each post. Please use them if you want us to have an idea what you want to see more of and what you don't care to see again.

As previously mentioned, d_rider was the winner of the PigWhore DVD contest. Please e-mail us with contact info so we can get the DVD sent to you. Thanks.

tawana

Contest Winner & "de" Words

2011-11-12T11:25:00.001-08:00

“d-rider” is the winner of the PigWhore DVD giveaway. Please contact us so we can get it to you. We want to thank those who entered and would appreciate feedback if there is interest in doing this again. Those who wish to purchase DVD's can contact DaddyK.

DaddyK's blog is a year old today. We wish to thank everyone for the support and encouragement. i must say, when we started His blog we were clueless to the world of blogging.. There are numerous reasons we decided to create a blog rather than a website. We are still learning Twitter learning, thanks to kind patient people.

Many of you have sent messages or comments. They are usually answered by "the mysterious tawana." i am DaddyK's slave, and very very proud to be able to say that. Although i am not pictured on the blog my presence is there. If there is a mistake it's my fault, but i do manage to post what Daddy wishes to share with the world. As DaddyK's slave i have many roles, one isn't being filmed or pictured for the blog.

In nearly every post DaddyK uses “de” words. We have discussed the meaning of these words often which lead to me doing some basic research into the meanings of the words and the history of the “de” prefix. I learned “de” is a common prefix usually meaning “away, off and generally indicates reversal or removal in English” (http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0907036.html)

DaddyK focuses on the mental aspects of BDSM such as humiliation, degradation, and other forms of torment. To garner the desired effect from a submissive something needs to be taken away, such as their feeling of worth. Demeaning is defined as “to reduce somebody to a much lower status in a humiliating way” ( Merriam-Webster.com.) Throughout history humiliation has been a controlling mechanism to define which human is in the superior position.

Fetish Mind Control has to do with achieving arousal from the practice, or perceived practice of altering the way the mind works, thinks, or perceives.(Rose) Words are an integral part of degrading or humiliating a sub/slave. We have decided to create a lexicon with a brief description of each “de” word. Hopefully there will be a weekly post with one word, life can get crazy at times so I won’t promise it will happen but that is the goal. The first word is:

Devalue:
1. to cause the value or importance of somebody or something to be reduced, or to become reduced in value or importance

One of the first steps in mental torment is to convince the sub/slave they are lesser than the Dominant. Of course a sub/slave should know they aren’t equal but this fact should be reiterated at the beginning of a scene. Pet play is one way of doing this, a pet may be treasured but they are at the mercy of their Master. Toilet play or the threat of certainly devalues a person; I know whenever I’ve licked a toilet I didn’t feel I had as much value as i normally do. Each person is different, nevertheless nearly everyone feels they have a value therefore it can be reduced by a Dominant wishing to do so.

Verbally Instilling Mental Torment

2011-11-08T05:21:00.000-08:00

The use of verbal communication is a very effective tool to employ when attempting to put a sub’s mind into a state of mental terror and torment. To do a good mental torment session the Dominant has to clearly convey with his words thoughts that put her mind into a distress mode. At all times the Dominant has to control the dialogue by leading the sub into areas that causes her discomfort. All successful D/s acts of verbal communication requires both parties to take an active part in talking. The secret is to guide the sub into talking about and then acknowledging things that bother her. A way to do this is by having her answer questions about the herself. A mentally sadistic Dominant then uses her own words against her in ways that exploit the worst of her fears. That will create self doubts and confusion in her mind. The goal of causing her severe mental torment gets easier to achieve by the Dominant once self doubts enters the sub’s mind . He must continue to use words wisely to force her to acknowledge whatever humiliating or degrading acts that he is putting her through . He must keep the pressure on her even if the emotional distress brings her to tears. When done correctly expect some deep emotional misery on her part but that’s ok. After all isn’t that the goal of the session. Emotional pain only heightens her sense of terror and torment. I get a lot of joy from watching a sub collapse into tears from being mentally tormented. In this clip of pigwhore I put her into a State of Mental Torment using verbal methods.

I can be reached by calling me at my NiteFlirt account if you are a male Dominant or female sub wanting to learn more about my methods of Verbal Mental Torment.

Talk to DaddyK on NiteFlirt

2011-11-05T20:32:00.000-07:00

This is a quick post to let DaddyK's NiteFlirt account is functional. He is available to take calls from any females who live to far away to experience His domination the chance to experience the next best thing. He can humiliate and degrade you over the phone similar to what you hear in the video's on this blog.

Dominates who want to learn from DaddyK can also contact Him at NiteFlirt. If you just want pointers or need help with a troublesome submissive call, He can help you out.

We want to thank everyone who has viewed the blog and those who have shared the link. The blog hits have surpassed what we originally expected and the feedback is encouraging and very much appreciated. There will be a new blog post with a new video clip within the next couple days.

The Pig Whore DVD Giveaway has a few days left. We encourage people to enter. All you have to do is leave a quick comment on any blog post and become a follower of the blog. We do hope to do more of these in the future, anyone who has a request for what video they would like a chance to win can leave a comment or contact DaddyK directly.

tawana (DaddyK's slave)

Acknowledging Humiliation By:

2011-10-28T21:56:00.000-07:00

“THE DEHUMANIZATION PROCESS”

Dehumanization is one of the processes by which a sub is depicted as less than human. I employ methods that include creating the perception by using verbally humiliating terms to degrade or demean the sub to accept their inferiority. Once the sub acknowledges that she is a pig or some other dirty animal it becomes easier for the Master to give her the deserving humiliating treatment. The more mentally convincing the Master is at getting the sub to accept her less than human status the greater he is able to instill the depth of the humiliation. I sometimes like to use embarrassment to put the sub into the frame of mind of an animal. My two favorite animals are dogs and pigs. Pigs are generally looked upon as having filthy parts. For most female subs they are very sensitive about having their pussy referred to as being filthy and needing to be cleaned. Of course by using a non-human method to clean them can be very demeaning, embarrassing, humiliating and degrading, which is my objective to cause deep mental pain and torment.

The following video is the cleansing and sanitizing of a black pig’s filthy cunt.

Dealing with Defiance

2011-10-26T14:26:00.000-07:00

Webster defines “defiance “as :

1 : the act or an instance of defying : CHALLENGE
2 : disposition to resist : willingness to contend or fight

A sub or slave that’s defiant can be the most difficult to breakdown. And yet they are the ones that would benefit the most from being broken. In my over 30 years of being a Daddy Dominant I have broken quite a few stubborn little brats and turned them into compliant play toys and pets. I do like an occasional challenge. Prior to pigwhore there was this sub named ednita that I was training. She had a disposition to resist but craved to be a good girl. With a defiant little bitch you can expect to experience some resistance in getting her to always obey and believe in the program. Her defiance must be dealt with to continue down the path you wish to lead her.

At some point in the breaking process the message needs to be taught that resisting and defying is foolish .As you know I’m a great believer in mental sadism but when I encounter a sub that is fighting not to surrender control to me I will sometime include a physical component in the breaking process. There is nothing like strong physical intervention to awake brain cells in a hardheaded bitch. A good ass whipping sometimes is needed to deliver the message loud and clear. This also might be a good time to distress her verbally by adding some mental input that make her acknowledge and challenge her intelligence and sanity. Giving a hard physical lesson can be mentally enlightening. Soon the thought that it’s in her self interest to comply is embedded in her minds. That no matter the depth of their desire to defy that in the end not complying will prove to be futile and that only the will of the Dominant will prevail. So her only option is to be a smart bitch and comply.

In my opinion to safely break her down when using physical means you must give a sub a safe word. If you desire to start building the foundation for the later Dominance and Control of a sub then you must seize the moment and insist that the sub lives up to her agreements. So no matter how defiant the sub acts she must be reminded to abide by any agreement with you, such as the use of a safe word or phrase. To be safe and consensual you must allow the sub a way to exit out if she needs to. Nothing is ever gained by hurting a sub. In this session with sub ednita all she had to do to quit and be a failure is say the safe word phrase “ Daddy please have mercy on this bitch” . Defiant subs like ednita will fight to the end in not wanting to fail. The shame of being a failure will drive most subs to push their own limits. If you are smart you will use that feeling of self shame to your benefit and advantage. With me little bitches like ednita will learn to comply in the end whether they want to or not. With me there is never a question of if you will submit to my will but when. So if you are a smart bitch just obey and save yourself a lot of pain.

Just like pigwhore the ninth session with sub ednita was her final time training with me. It was versions of this clip that were taken off of my yahoo groups and reposted around the internet as the “Crybaby Video“. It was the video that made DaddyK known to my many friends and fans. Much thanks to sub ednita. Although never got a chance to make her into a little puppet that was my goal but my time with her was cherished. I know she will never forget me for having cross ed my path in her beginning quest into BDSM. Although I never mentally conquered her I will always reside in ednita’s mind. Isn’t that what mind play is all about?

With this clip the training of pigwhore and sub ednita comes to an end. I will be moving on to training new subs. If you are female and want to be considered for training then contact me by email. If you are a female sub or Male Dominant you can talk with me at NiteFlirt t If this clip gets you wanting to see more there are a couple of options.1. You can contact DaddyK at DKINKY44@YAHOO.COM for buying information for a copy of the whole E-9 video. 2. You can see more of this video and other videos by DaddyK by joining Fetlife and signing up as a supporter of the site and then going to my Fetlife dadikinky profile and requesting to be my friend. With the friend request please send me a message saying you found me on my blog.You can also talk with me at NIteFLirt to learn directly from DaddyK. I will accept calls from MALE DOMINANTS and female submissives.

Pig Whore DVD Giveaway

2011-10-24T22:27:00.001-07:00

TERMS AND CONDITIONSWinner will be picked via random.org and notified by email..winner will have 48 to get back to me or I will pick a new winnerTo leave a comment you must actually "leave a comment" at the bottom of the page. They are all approved but to keep track of who has left comments i am approving each one. To "Follow DaddyK" you must actually become a follower. If there are questions please ask. Good Luck

Keys to Breaking a Bitch

2011-10-03T22:08:00.000-07:00

Mental play is one of the most intense ways to break down a sub in BDSM. When taken to the level of breaking down a sub it is considered edge play and sadistic. As a mental sadist I enjoy using fear, embarrassment, verbal humiliation and degradation to break a sub. If you choose to use those methods yourself be prepared for lots of tears and other physical symptoms such as confusion, tremors and panic. If done properly mental play will put the sub into emotional distress. This should be an expected outcome and planned for, after all isn’t creating a mental collapse the objective to achieving the goal of breaking her. To get there you need to attack her humanity and dignity with verbal humiliation, embarrassment and degradation. I like using situations where I can verbally attack the sub’s appearance, character, intelligence and morals. You must be willing to establish your dominance and control over her either through mental fear or physical means like impact play. The Dominant must demonstrate his power over her by making her do or be something that she is not comfortable with and then making her tolerate that fearful situation. Any tendancy to not obey must be crushed before breaking her down can occur. Creating some anxiety is also a good thing. Adding some sort of physical force help enforce the power of the Dominant over the sub. I personally enjoy my display of power over female subs and therefore I use a lot of physical interaction to implant my will.

As you will see in this last session with pigwhore I did all of the things I previously mention. Because of the extremely sensitive nature of some of the things done in the final session with pigwhore I cannot risk showing on this blog all of what I did to break her. Oh, I did mentally break her good, this was her final session with me for good reasons. I don’t think her psychological health could had endured another. In this 22 minutes you won’t see the gunplay or the harsh tit beating or all of her degrading animal food eating.

Remember that this is a session with a real sub and not an actor. Please be respectful of her human defects.

If this clip gets you wanting to see more there are a couple of options:

1. You can contact DaddyK at DKINKY44@YAHOO.COM for buying information for a copy of the whole video.

2. You can see the whole video in 6 segments by joining Fetlife (link) and signing up as a supporter of the site and then go to my fetlife dadikinky profile and requesting to be my friend. With the friend request please send me a message saying you learned about Fetlife from my blog.

You can also talk with me at Nite Flirt to learn directly from DaddyK. I will accept calls from MALE DOMINANTS and female submissives.

ESSENCE OF HUMILIATION

2011-05-14T16:24:00.000-07:00

The essence of a humiliation scene is to give mental pain/torment to the person on the receiving end. I like to start a humiliation session by first inputting some physical pain into their brain with some impact play. A little fear and torment also helps with the process getting emotions awake. I use these methods to open up the pathways into the mind to get full penetration of what I’m doing to them mentally. A mental masochist needs to feel the pain from humiliation deep inside their core. For some subs humiliation can be such an intense emotional experience that they cry. I love tears, so for me it’s a plus if I make them cry. Many humiliation sluts can get very sexually arouse from being treated badly.

Webster dictionary defines humiliate as: to reduce to a lower position in one's own eyes or others' eyes. That is exactly what I try to accomplish when humiliating a sub. In my opinion every kink or fetish can be made to be humiliating. Turning a kink into some sort of humiliating act is where I’m at as a mental sadist. In this session with pigwhore I decided to corrupt the kink of “boot worship”. As a Dominant I get pleasure for subs that enjoy giving boot worship but I get even more pleasure from watching the torment on a sub’s face that hate giving boot worship as she involuntary complies.

In the video above pigwhore talks about how she feels from being mentally tormented by me. So what does a humiliation pig feel? Listen to the answer from pigwhore in her words. Watch where her right hand is during and after she talks about her feeling.

Revaluing Worth with Mental Retraining

2011-05-06T16:31:00.000-07:00

For me one of the purposes of humiliation is to make the sub believe that her value is less than she has previously been led to believe. Webster dictionary defines humiliate as : to reduce to a lower position in one's own eyes or others' eyes. That is exactly what I try to accomplish when humiliating a sub. For many female subs they put a high value especially on their pussy. A sub having a too inflated opinion of herself can become a problem if the intent of the Master is to break her down to become a slut, pet or toy, etc. Some way must be found to reduce her over inflated self worth if she is to learn that her proper place is at the feet of her Master. I use various methods of mental retraining to reduce a sub’s self-worth and self esteem. For most things in the world there is a connection between a monetary price and worth or value of the object. Usually the higher the price the greater its worth. I don't feel there are any reasons self worth can’t be connected to price in dollars. Therefore the use of money is one of my favorite methods of retraining a sub’s mind to revalue her worth. This sort of training requires that her value in monetary terms must be consistently the same each time and the retraining must occur regularly until she comes to mentally believe in her new worth no matter how humiliating. In my opinion there need to be some level of worth even if it a few cents or a dollar. I don’t ever set value at nothing. I feel that nobody is totally worthless. I do know of Dominants that use the concept of worthlessness for its humiliation benefits in sub training. Watch my sub darkfantasy verbally acknowledge the worth I gave her.

The payoff is when the sub’s mind accepts and believes without a doubt that she is valued correctly because she honored that her Master was able to see her true value and set her new worth in dollars for A/all to know especially herself. Once value is set in term of dollars its easy to test to see if she will truly accept that price as her REVALUED WORTH..

Putting her mind into a State of Fear

2011-03-05T18:23:00.000-08:00

A lot of time people don’t connect sadistic behavior with anything other than physical pain. I believe that’s wrong. Sadistic behavior can be very mental. It’s not true that words can never hurt you. They do hurt and sometimes they hurt very deeply. Would you want to be called a sack of shit? And then forced to acknowledge through self humiliation that you are a sack of shit. Attacking the core of a person can be quite sadistic. Terror, torment and fear can produce a lot of non physical pain. Humiliation and degradation can be as internally painful and as a hard whipping would be externally painful. I myself prefer to create with terror an atmosphere of fear within the sub‘s mind. A fear so great of my next action that anything might put her over the edge. Before she could reach that level I needed to condition her mind as I prepared her for that adventure of terror. This mental conditioning contained some body writing, a little signage, boot worship, self humiliating acts and Viola, her brain is wide open for me to terrorize. I love giving mental sadism when given the opportunity.

In my seventh session with pigwhore I wanted to give her a painful moment they she would never forget. In the process of doing that I almost had to take her to the funny farm for scare little pigs.

Master Snaurg

2011-03-01T17:47:00.000-08:00

Greeting to all my friends and followers. I have some very exciting news to pass on to you. For the last month I have had the pleasure to preview the website http://www.boundnabused.com of my friend Master Snaurg. I have known Master Snaurg as a real life friend for about fifteen. When he lived in Spokane we were members of the same local BDSM groups. With me being totally rope type challenged I have had him assist me as my bondage rigger in several of my videos when there was a need for one of my sluts to be tied. Master Snaurg is a very professional bondage rigger with many years of experience that’s known throughout the BDSM industry. So I was honored to be given the opportunity to preview his website. To tell the truth bondage has never been my kink I’m much more into the mental and impact kinks. Even with that being the case I found boundnabused to be excellent site full different scenes of expertly done bondage and suspension. It’s easy to navigate with weekly new content added to a large collection of previous scenes. The girls are attractive and are truly real life members of the lifestyle and not purely performing for a buck. The site is visually appealing with well filmed scenes of moderate to extreme bondage. I am a fan of the Kink and Hardtied commercial sites but I would encourage all my friends to support the smaller independent websites such as Boundnabused,com by giving them a look see. Especially when they are as well put together and reasonably priced as Master Snaurg’s site. So let’s at least give him a look by buying a one month membership. Take Care DaddyK

Session #1 For Pig #235 aka sub trailertrash

2011-02-01T10:56:00.000-08:00

I’m big into degrading female subs with animal play. Puppy and ponies are cute but pigs are in a special group among human animals. Pigs are usually fat and nasty with a desire for humiliation. I like to push my pig to self-humiliate herself by having her acknowledge her new status and type of pig. The goal is to put her into a swine mindset by getting her arouse from being treated like your personal piggy. Pig training is one of my secondary kinks I get much more aroused doing sex slut training. So I seek out the knowledge of an expert such as my French friend who’s a longtime pig trainer. He gave her Pig #235 as her number among his list of pigs. With the help of his ideas and my over 30 years of experience in humiliating females of all ages, races and shapes I was going to transform sub trailertrash into Pig #235. A pig knowing its name is rule # 1, then acknowledging her breed of swine is rule #2 for me. To serve me she wasn’t going to be some sweet little piggy. Check out the video clip and hear sub trailertrash tell the world what kind of pig she is. The watersports PIG #235 received at the end of the session was left off this version because of this site’s TOS. If you are a paid Fetlife supporter the wet version can be see on my profile at Fetlife . Comments are always welcomed.

Requests for trailertrash

2011-01-27T12:37:00.000-08:00

DaddyK asked a French friend who he has known for many years to give some suggestions to humiliate trailertrash. The list has some great ideas which trailertrash will experience in the next few weeks. As Daddy humiliates trailertrash using some of these ideas pictures or video will be posted here.

Daddy welcomes more suggestions; if there is realistic humiliation ideas for trailertrash please leave a comment or send an email. Also, Daddy will be back to posting regularly soon, after his Vegas trip he has been very busy. Things will get back to normal soon, we want to thank everyone for their patience and hope you add Daddy's blog to your blog roll, we will reciprocate.

tawana

Humiliation Suggestions for trailertrash

01 PIGS ARE JUST NUMBERS

I have yet pics with 235 on her meat, but all following requested pics are fine with her number written somewhere on her!

02 PIGS LIKES BODYWRITINGS

Body writing on her forehead. A pig must know what she is

The first body writing to do, of course, is "PIG"

All other suggestions are welcome: "IDIOT" , "HO" , "CUNT" , "SLUT" etc...

03 PIGS LOVES PIGNOSES

I think this rule is clear

04 PIGS ARE PRESENTING HOLES

Self-stretching her mouth

Spread with hands her vagina

Bent over to show us her asshole

05 PIGS ARE STUPID MOUTHS

The right mouth of a PIG is a stuffed mouth

This rule needs to be creative: anything but dick please! Panties, ballgag, apple, sausage, cheeseburger.... etc..

06 PIGS ARE TOILETS

Be urinal for Master, open mouth

Squatting and pee anywhere

Licking toilet bowl

07 PIGS NEEDS SPANKING AND BEATING

Red asses are particularly welcome

08 PIGS ARE ON ALL FOURS

In the room or dungeon, in a cage, eating from a dog bowl...

09 PIGS WEAR HEAVY MAKE UP

They are still most stupid with a heavy heavy whore make up

10 PIGS ACT JUST AS GARBAGE

Be creative! Mud or scat games, head in the garbage, bath in messy food....

Pet Training

2011-01-16T22:51:00.000-08:00

Dehumanizing a sub to the point she develops the belief that she is truly your pet is one of my favorite types of mental play. With practice and training it is possible to instill into the sub’s mentality that she is more than just playing a role as your pet. She will believe she is your dog, pig, sow or whatever animal you wish to own. To get her there you need to train her as you would train that animal, a dog like a dog, a pig like a pig, etc. Then put her into the role of that animal and practice training as you would any real animal taking an obedience class. In training pet treats and toys can be helpful. However I feel it’s the feeding of your sub pet the food of that animal that sets into her mind that she is becoming that animal. Mind play of degrading a sub into being an animal that you own and control is quite the aphrodisiac for some Dominants such as me. It’s a wonderful feeling to own another piece of their mind.

In this video I am doing some initial puppy pet training with pigwhore. In this practice I had my dog coaching whistle and a special motivation tool to see if I could teach her basic tricks.

New Emerging Niche Markets Cougars and Cuckolds

2011-01-14T13:22:00.000-08:00

At the AVN Expo I talked to lots of professionals about the current direction of the adult film industry. Niche markets were a frequent topic of discussion. Doing films with cougars and MILF’s was often bought up as a growing market. Older women with younger men are becoming popular. All sorts of fetish films are also in more demand. A small niche market within fetish that was touched upon was films with cuckolds.

In the past I have done a few cuckold videos but I did not put much time or energy into them. Giving humiliation to wimps and sissies is easy for me. With this new information that they may be an emerging market I’m going to reevaluate my views and take a serious look at doing more cuckold films. When I done cuckolds films in the past I was a natural at humiliating the other male without engaging in any bisexual contact with him. Male on male action is not something I will ever desire for myself. But if a wimpy cuck wants to clean up the mess sans me, then I say have at it.

Cuckolds and Cuckqueens, Real Life Partners, Investors

I will be looking for real cucks with real life female partners wanting to be in private productions and commercial for sale productions. I will provide a bull male or males. I want to film wall to wall sex with real people and not with actors playing a part. Also I’m will be looking for partners willing to invest $500 to help finance amateur cuckold videos. I would be open to producing private role-play type cuckold videos with cucks without partners if the cucks are willing to finance the cost of the video and promise not to sell it.　

Cuckqueen videos are my passion I love humiliating one female into servicing another female. I get hard from watching an inferior woman worshiping the younger, stronger, prettier, smarter superior woman. Superiority may also be based on race. The inferior woman sits on the sidelines being told the difference between her worthless ass and the other woman. Being the cleanup girl after her man or any man pleasured himself. Once again I’m looking for real life straight or lesbian couples with a cuckqueen or a single superior female. For the film I can provide a superior female or inferior female with a bull male. Also once again I’m will be looking for partners willing to invest $500 to help finance amateur cuckqueen videos.

As an investor you will get a copy of the video and a limited release of copyright license to produce and sell up to 100 copies of the video. An option to produce additional videos would also be available. I would do all the filming and handle all the required paperwork and releases. You would be in the amateur video production business without much of an investment and no production hassles. Contact me at mental_play@yahoo.com if you wish to be either in a film with your real life partner or be an investing partner in a film.

Las Vegas, AVN Expo, Power Exchange Club

2011-01-12T13:57:00.000-08:00

Greeting friends and followers I’m back from the AVN Expo in Las Vegas full of new ideas to make this blog bigger and better. In my absence tawana did an excellent job keeping this thing together, she even added a twitter account to the blog that is exploding with new friends. So all you tweeters out there add me to your list so that we can stay connected. I know nothing on how twitter works so stay patient with me as I learn. If anybody is a twitter expert feel free to share your knowledge with me.

Going to the AVN Expo was great, I met lots of people in the adult industry. However the Amateur portion of the business was almost non existent. That was quite disappointing since Amateur is where most of my interest lies. I think maybe us small independent amateur producers should look into starting our own organization that caters to our special needs. If anybody has any ideas on how to get something like that going send me an email and lets chat.

I was invited to Sean Michaels’s private party after the AVN Award Show. For those who don’t know Sean Michaels is one of the leading performers and directors in the adult porn industry. He is in the AVN hall of fame with over 1300 films to his credit. Besides being a top porn star he is also an excellent gentleman who I was able to sit and have a chat with in his suite. Besides attending the Expo I went to the Power Exchange sex and BDSM club on Friday night. So happen there was a fetish fashion show going on there with lots of beautiful models of all ages and shapes wearing leather and not much more. The Power Exchange is a beautiful club that’s very clean with an excellent helpful staff. It consisted of a couple of dungeon areas and several theme playrooms. If you are a voyeur most of the rooms have windows and no doors. There is a couples only room reserved purely for couples that want to play out of sight of singles. Being a voyeur I wanted to see more group action and there was none on the Friday night or the previous time I was at the Power Exchange. Lack of group action would be my only complaint with the club.

Writing Contest

2011-01-06T09:01:00.000-08:00

As the rules stated, the writing contest will not be judged until there is ten stories submitted. Unfortunately we have not hit that goal, therefore the contest is extended until January 31, 2011. Hopefully with the holidays behind us people will have time to write. Also, some stories were rejected due to length or the topic did not fall within the guidelines. Although we loved the stories, it was not fair to put them in the contest.

DaddyK is currently at the AVN convention, he told me to "have fun" with His blog while he is gone. A kind creative person suggested i start a twitter account for Mental Play and ask people to post their humiliating fantasies or how they feel when being humiliated, why they like to humiliate, humiliating New Years resolutions (how one wants to be humiliated or how One will humiliated their humiliation slut) etc. i hope to surprise DaddyK by having lots of twitter posts for Him to ponder upon his return from Vegas.

UPDATE: A hashtag #DKtask was started on twitter to post short humiliation ideas, the twitter nic for DaddyK's blog is mental_play for anyone who would like to add.

tawana

In her own words..

2010-12-30T19:58:00.000-08:00

For the second time I have the pleasure of posting a commentary and video from my favorite dirty girl Mia. With a great set of tits,nice round ass, the face of a sex temptress with dark hair and a very filthy mind; Mia defines the essence of slut like nobody I ever met. Mia's picture should be next to the word slut in the Webster's dictionary. Now Mia in her own words she writes about verbal humiliation from inside the mind of a very dirty girl. Also take the time to enjoy her on video being humiliated by her Daddy. You too can personally enjoy slut Mia by visiting her on cam. See previous commentary for her websites.

This happens often. I am enjoying what some describe as sub space; highly aroused and my mind free of any thoughts save pleasing Daddy or tending to the throb in my cunt. I want to cum, need to cum. Daddy has been doing any number of degrading things to me, such as covering his slut in piss, using my mouth to save him a trip to the bathroom, beating my tits, slapping my face, maybe shoving my mouth onto some other sluts’ ass or spreading my own with his trusty speculum. He may have been gagging me with his cock or fingers in an effort to make me vomit. I feel used, objectified and fulfilled yet I still crave something.. I need to hear the ‘words’, the ‘descriptions’, be called the ‘names’.

Daddy likes words, he likes to describe in detail the sick, filthy things he wants to do to me or have me do to others. Sometimes it is grossly inappropriate fantasies with me as the main character. The first time he whispered things in my ear I was overwhelmed by how aroused I became; how intensely my body and mind reacted to his voice and the content of what he was saying. It was not long before I began to crave his voice calling me filthy names and yearned for more of the scenarios. Now I beg to hear them. The darker and more humiliating they are the quicker and harder I cum.

Of course I’ve known for ages I enjoyed to be called humiliating names likes slut, cocksucker or cum dump; that they turned me on, yet there was a significant escalation when the names became more dehumanizing and the deeply depraved scenarios were introduced. Being referred to as Daddy’s urinal, a shit hole licker, or being told there was a line up of people waiting to piss all over me created a considerably deeper and much more erotic level of humiliation.

Verbal humiliation tends to have a way of evolving and deepening, much like slowly peeling back the layers covering a vulnerable core. And with this process comes an intrinsic honesty and intimacy, which can be very liberating. For instance, now, I sometimes must repeat or identify my own humiliating expressions to describe myself. Daddy has also been know to ask challenging questions such as “are you going to suck doggy cocks for Daddy?” forcing me to debase myself with the answer. As we delve deeper the language gets more severe. Being reprimanded can take the form of being called a stupid cunt or lazy whore and when licking piss from a bowl or the floor, I am often reduced to a puppy or a lapping kitty.

Erotic degradation though language is an exciting and compelling journey and I relish the fact that now the sound of Daddy’s voice can lull me into that place deep in my psyche where nothing else matters but dark indulgence.

Breaking Down

2010-12-26T09:04:00.000-08:00

At the start of pigwhore’s 1^st session in my dungeon I made her looked like a baby. When it ended she cried like a baby. In between she lost all pretense that she was some sort of fat Diva. I found that verbally calling a woman dirty names is nothing like the emotional shame that comes from having nasty words pasted all over her body for all to read. Words written on the body of a sub gives them an element of truthfulness. Sometimes the words are actually true about them and that reality causes them to have real shame about themselves. Its my belief that humiliation works best when its based on reality. What I seek to achieve as I train a sub to become a humiliation slut is to cause enough mental distress or confusion to lead to an emotional outburst in the form of tears. My methods of mental play include using a combination of degradation, terror, torment and fear to put the sub into an emotionally stressful state of mind. In this session with pigwhore the different combinations of mental play plus some aggressive physical play turned her into a crybaby. She is a prime candidate to become a humiliation slut

AVN Convention

2010-12-24T11:42:00.000-08:00

I will be attending the AVN convention in Las Vegas January 6-9, this is the network card I will be handing out at the trade show. If anyone else is attending this event and want to meet please contact me here or through Fetlife. I hope to see others there, it should be a great time for all as usual.

Another Sort of Animal

2010-12-18T16:22:00.000-08:00

Pigwhore’s 5^th session with me would be totally different. A transformation in her training began. Doing lesson # 4 Dreamer aka sub pigwhore flunked out of the Slut 101 training. In the beginning of her Slut 101 training she asked to be called Dreamer because she dreamed of being a sluttish porn star. She did not have the right stuff to continue on toward being a sex slut. However I loved the way she cried so the decision was made to take away all her dreams and to use her in painful humiliating ways as a degraded crying little pig. After some relabeling she got a new start as a pet on the floor of my dungeon next to my boots. So she was reborn as sub pigwhore She was to never again grace a bedroom with me, for her it was onward to my dungeon of torment and terror. It would be her new place to meet with me. A place where I would terrorize her until she wouldn’t return for more. I founded out in slut 101 she wasn’t fit to be a bedroom slut; now my mission was to see how much of a humiliation pig I could make her into. I thought her fat ass was much more suited for humiliation. When I train a slut I try to determine the true nature of the slut and train to those tendencies. I thought pigwhore liked being humiliated, my plan was to find out how much she liked it.

Humiliation Writing Contest

2010-12-10T11:13:00.001-08:00

Topic: A young wife’s humiliating confession to her priest and her penance.

One Grand Prize of $50 (U.S. Dollars)

Stories must be written in English or translated prior to submission. Submissions must be original work.By submitting your story you give me permission to repost on this blog.

Stories need to comply with Blogspot terms of service in order to be a valid entry.

Prize: $50 paid via PayPal

Submissions must be between 700-1200 words. Paste your story in the body of an email (attachments will not be opened). The subject line of the email should be “WRITING CONTEST ENTRY - JOHN SMITH.” This does not have to be your real name, use whatever name you wish displayed with your submission on the blog and the poll that will be used to vote for the winner. Submit entries to mental_play@yahoo.com.

Contest will be open until December 31, 2010. Judging will begin New Years Day. If I don't have ten entries by the closing date the contest will be extended one week at a time until I have ten stories.

How I will choose the winner: A poll will be placed on my blog immediately after the final entry date. To avoid cheating in the poll vote with multiple votes from the same person only Twenty-Five percent of the vote will be based on poll results, and seventy-five per cent by three judges I have chosen. The judges will vote independently of each other using the same simple point system as the poll. The point system will determine which story got the greatest number of total points from the poll vote and judges. In the case of a tie the story that got the greatest number of poll votes will be declared the winner. My decision on the winner is final.

Please feel free to pass this along to everyone you know!! The more entries the better. If you have a blog, I would appreciate a repost or a link!

UPDATE: Contest has been extended until January 31, 2011

PigWhore Lesson #4

2010-12-04T18:46:00.000-08:00

In lesson #3 it was determined without a doubt that pigwhore was a pain slut. The flow from her pussy totally confirmed my suspicions. Now in lesson # 4 I was going to teach her that sluts in the dark against walls can become victims of men wanting to control them. She was still scared even when the lights came on, maybe a little of the fear and torment from lesson #3 was still bouncing around in her little pig brain. I gave her a simple assignment; all she had to do is continuously masturbate no matter what else was happening to her. The lesson being taught was that a slut should able to give herself pleasure in the middle of getting spank, molested, choked or even if a knife was at her throat. Her grade for this lesson was based on how well she could follow my orders to work her pussy without stopping. She also learned that when you kiss my feet you better ask permission first cause I expect sluts to have good matters or there is a price to pay if you don’t. Pigwhore cries so well and that gives me so much pleasure. Every slut needs to learn that rule number one is OBEY. After this lesson I determined that she will never be a good sex slut so I decided to end her slut 101 training in the bedroom and start training her for pain and humiliation in my dungeon. She’s not the first to fail at being a sex slut. I see potential in her to be a very good pig. Starting with lesson #5 the lesson plan will be totally difference, no more Master nice guy. My dungeon will be a much scarier place.

PigWhore Lesson #3

2010-11-30T13:31:00.000-08:00

After some group sex training with a couple in lesson #1 and then learning to submit in race play to a Black Domme in lesson #2 ,pigwhore continues on to lesson #3. So far she has done quite well but for lesson #3 she gets some solo play with me, DaddyK. It won’t be so easy this time. For this lesson I have in mind less sex and more pain. I want to see if she cums from receiving pain. I do this by both giving her physical pain and creating a bunch of mental stress in her little pig brain. She is in for some hard spanking to see if she’s a pain slut. I like being rough with my slut students and pigwhore finds out that I will push her limits to get a reaction from her body.

For third lesson in my Slut 101 course “ Please Have Mercy On This Bitch” is the safe phrase that pigwhore needs to use to stop her torment. This lesson is about extremely extra hard discipline. This lesson starts out with pigwhore over my knee. I take her down the pain highway, through valleys of spanking, over mountains of mental confusion, passing by the river of cumming, She ends up at a road block bruised and confuse, nude and used, battered and tattered, out of gas crying her safe phrase. This is a lesson she will never forget, as it should be. Now that she knows to fear me I ready to make her a better slut in the dark for lesson #4.

Second Craigslist Ad

2010-11-26T20:51:00.000-08:00

White Trailer Trash bitch begging to meet some girls (18-30) that will use me in dirty sleazy ways in front of my Master. I'm a slutty 43yo.BBW. Please let me service your pussy and ass with my tongue and suck your toes. I will do you in front of your man or friends. I will beg to clean up your messy pussy after a man or men cum in it. I want a very wet girl. I’m there to entertain my Master and others that you choose. You need to have a place to play. You can be thin or plump. You don’t have to do anything to my loose pussy, saggy tits or big ass. My Master prefers that I do all the servicing. I'm trampy so please treat me that way. Will respond only to responses that included a phone number.

Ad can be seen at: http://spokane.craigslist.org/cas/2081265203.html

Degradation

2010-11-22T11:34:00.000-08:00

Degradation used in the training of sub dark fantasy

After turning my service animal into a monkey I wasn't totally satisfied with the degree of degradation I was subjecting her to. Then I recalled as a young man seeing old films with organ grinder monkeys with tin cans. So I fed my new little monkey a handful of peanuts and gave her a soup can before putting her to use as a special type of organ grinder monkey earning nickels and dimes. I'm quite proud of my money making monkey.

Humiliation training of trailertrash

2010-11-19T21:07:00.000-08:00

Excerpt from self humiliation essay:
I want to be tied over a saw horse and used by a group of drunk illegal mexicans at a party. The women will laugh and call me a pig, dog, and dirty whore. After they are done with me they would smear my pussy, ass and tits with honey for their pets to lick.

First Craigslist Ad:
White Trailer Trash bitch begging to meet some boys (18-21) that will use me in dirty ways in front of my Master. I'm a slutty 43yo.BBW. Please dump big loads in my loose pussy, pull on my saggy tits and use my big ass. I'm trampy so please treat me that way. Will respond only to answers with phone number.

Self identification video

Mental Conditioning to get the sub to take part in her own Humiliation

2010-11-18T15:49:00.000-08:00

I don’t profess to be the total authority when it comes to the statements that I make on this blog. What I suggest will not work for every submissive. I just wish to share some of the methods that have worked for me. To get a sub into a functional state of humiliation you must first condition them mentally. I am great believer in the concept that the sub must embrace her own humiliation through self imposed actions. They need to be an active partner in the process. It’s up to the Master to create the proper type of humiliation training that leads the submissive to want to assist. As her Master you should be open and honest about your plans and methods to humiliate her, that gives her every opportunity to totally consent and help you in taking her down the dark path. In my opinion that is a plus.

Humiliation is a multi- step process starting with mental conditioning. I like to focus my conditionings in three areas of self humiliation, self identification, and self acceptance. I’m big proponent of Self with a core belief that if the humiliation comes from within it will have a deeper effect. Master assisted self humiliation is one of my favorite forms of humiliation training. The training has to always to be tailored to person; this is not a one size fit all type of activity. Here are some of the things I have done in the three areas of mental conditioning.

Self humiliation is something I like to start a sub with. It helps her focus openly on my intentions and gives me valuable information as to what truly gets to her inner being and that where I like to go. I am presently training a sub, trailertrash, in humiliation. Part of her conditioning was to write a “self humiliation essay” which includes acts she would find humiliating. I will share some of her essay in a future post as her training progresses. I also demanded a list of words that she finds humiliating in regards to her. The purpose is to find what devalues her as a person. At no time am I bound to stay only with her ideas of self humiliation. I just use her information to add to my ideas for her training. Her self humiliating tasks are just another tool.

Self identification gives the sub a chance to wrap her mind around the humiliated creature that she is going to become. As Master M said in his guest commentary,” body writing is effective tool to convey humiliation.” Mentally she can experience visually degrading words that describe her new self. At first degrading words may be written under her clothing or on her intimate body parts then progressing to public displays such as an adult bookstores or truck stops. Having her make signs with degrading statements also can used to help her self-identify. The internet is an excellent way to safely get a sub to do self identifying humiliation. Some pics of sub trailertrash’s self-identifying acts during her training will be posted on this blog.

Self acceptance is where she is accepting of her humiliation and seeks out others to aid in giving her humiliation. At this point the mental conditioning is in the final stages. She is looking forward to being a humiliation slut and can’t wait to enjoy the pleasures the pain of humiliation brings. I assigned sub trailertrash a task to write humiliating Craigslist ads begging for humiliation. I will be posting the ad’s here as they are posted on Craigslist. Her ads will be part of this blog starting November 19, 2010. Please check back often and comment on her ads. Please suggest ads you would like to see her post. Craigslist will probably flag her so check the blog daily to see how she self humiliated herself and begged on Craigslist.

Conditioning A Sub/Slave Mind For Humiliation from a sub's viewpoint..

2010-11-13T08:55:00.000-08:00

Most humiliation discussions focus on the view points of the Dominant/Master and sometimes we tend to forget that there is another side. To be better Dominants and Masters we need to hear from that other side. For humiliation to be good the pleasure has to go both ways. That’s why I asked Mia to write a guest commentary. The first time I set eyes on Mia in a video scene on Fetlife I knew she was Special and I was blown away by this super photogenic dirty girl. I have been a fan of hers ever since, she is an amazing humiliation slut. Her voice whimpers like little puppy, her eyes get excited, and hungry for more of whatever her Daddy wishes to give her and whenever he pees between her legs her pussy quivers to the point that it sucks up his pee. Mia is truly a Special Slut. Check out this dirty girl’s links at the bottom of her commentary and give her some action, you won’t be disappointed. She will go on CAM (Mia is "naughtymia' there) and you can see for yourself what I’m talking about. Now in her own words my favorite dirty girl Mia.

If someone had told me 5 years ago that I would one day relish being called a filthy whore and Daddy’s urinal, or that I would beg to drink his piss and thank him for beating me, spitting in my face and feeding me his cum, I never would have believed it. I certainly would never have imagined how alive and joyful I would feel after being humiliated and objectified. Nor would I have believed the orgasms derived through extreme degradation would be so intense and addictive. I now find humiliation to be very arousing, therapeutic even; an experience that pushes me to a special dark place. And by delving into that darkness I am rewarded with a cathartic release.

Humiliation within BDSM remains a fascinating, if not, misunderstood subject. Many questions arise such as; how can we really enjoy it, do we have some unresolved issues or are we just doing it for our Masters. As with all sex it is complicated. Must we know why something feels good or dig deep to find out where it originated? For some maybe, but for most of us we just need to enjoy our kink in a way that is safe and rewarding. So yes, as a submissive women, I get a great deal of pleasure from being on the receiving end of what my Daddy enjoys, but the biggest part remains about how the degradation taps into something deep within me; something very erotic and incredibly hot.

I believe the most important element to enjoying erotic humiliation is that the slave or submissive feel she is ultimately respected and valued and that the degradation is being done by or under the control of someone who cares for her. It also has to be sexualized to confuse the mind and erotize the experience, as reaching orgasm while being degraded is a huge step toward becoming a humiliation slut.

And because all subs are unique and can handle different levels and speeds it is important to be eased in. It might begin with name calling only or mild objectification, but by tapping into the type of humiliation that is easiest for the sub to deal with you begin conditioning them for more intense and challenging mental sadism and domination. The good thing about humiliation is that if it is one of your kinks, you will know it. You cunt will tell you long before you have had time to think about it.

By Self-proclaimed humiliation slut Mia

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Video is property of Mia, it was used with her permission. Thanks for sharing Mia!!

Master M's Guest Commentary

2010-11-12T10:39:00.000-08:00

From time to time I will have guest writers, people I feel share My humiliation fetish. The first person I wanted to ask to contribute to my blog as a guest writer was Master M, probably the best "humiliation artist" I have met, His humiliation hole is known worldwide. Master M and I met about fifteen years ago on a yahoo group, I have followed Him and His stank ho's as long. His body writing technique has been incorporated into many of my sessions. The writing you see on the bodies of pigwhore and darkfantasy is influenced by him. I appreciate Master M writing a post and sharing His views and pictures for My blog. Should anyone else want to be a guest writer, and has something to share that fits into Mental Play please contact Me. Now in his own words Master M's commentary.

Greetings, Master M here from the East Coast. DK had asked me to share some of my views on the area of BDSM Humiliation, as I differ a little in the methods I use. I have been playing in this area for well over 20 years. I prefer to call myself a “Humiliation Artist” as I use more of a theatrical and scripted session, based on ones fantasies and then push the limit with creative ideas that will work for them. I enjoy the humorous humiliation scene that can serve as a purpose, as opposed to the terrifying scene. I find there are many, many females out there who crave this. My slaves I affectionately call “Stank Ho’s, I do use the pig nose at times for my fatter ones but I tell them they should aspire to the role of Stank HO….it helps them loose weight, I find most would rather be the street walking stank ho then a pig. My subs are my canvas and I regularly use heavy makeup, extreme dress both slutty and just plain bizarre, use of props, household objects, body writing and sign display.

One area that most perspective subs ask me about is the use of heavy makeup; I call it the whore/clown look. It serves many purposes.

1- I enjoy taking photos of my sessions and this helps hide ones identity.

2- It shows me how well a slave follows direction as I usually tell them what colors and how to apply for a given session.

3- And the 3^rd and most important reason it gets the slave into a mind set to serve. Sometimes the anticipation of a session is as much fun as the session. The thinking of what is going to happen, how will it go down etc… As the sub is putting on the makeup she is thinking about what is to come, the time it takes to apply the makeup is a time for her to get in to the “zone” so to speak. It’s a private time to discover ones self.

Many of the subs I see I have known for many many years, some all the way back to the beginning. Anyone remember swinger magazines? Unreal People, Connexion, Looking Glass? I had dozens of ads in these magazines and have written stories for them as well. You would remember my ads, as I had my slave pose with various signs.

I will tell you one of my favorite humiliations is as basic as being in the 3^rd grade. I had a female wall street executive who would visit me on her lunch breaks years ago when I worked for a Domme in Manhattan. One of the things I did after a routine verbal lashing session was to send her on her way with a simple sign taped to her back. The sign simply read “KICK ME”. Here was this attractive middle aged woman with much power and dignity walking back to her office building with a “KICK ME” sign on her back. It gave her a great thrill to walk down the streets and she even made it into her office building before someone took it off her. The excuse was simple, someone bumped into me on the street I guess. A simple humiliating act, which brought her much excitement. She called after this and told me what a rush it was to see how long it would take until someone told her.

The same lady had an important business presentation one afternoon. She took the morning off to see me and I came up with an idea to calm her nerves during the session. There was one particular person there she hated, and was intimidated by. So she stripped down naked and I wrote with a nice black sharpie various words and statements on her. I forgot his name but I wrote something like “Mr. Johnson you are a cocksucking fag weasel” “This company Sucks” “I stole $100,000 from you fags” She put on her clothes and went to do this meeting and did such a great job at it. She called later to tell me how scared she felt and at the same time how powerful she felt. She was “floating” when she was talking face to face with this executive she loathed. Little did he know what was staring at him under her clothes.

Then there is my tattooed fat ass bitch who I made play one of those annoying South African horns…the Vuvuzela on her knees in her apt. building holding a sign “ Annoying Stank Ass Fool” but that’s a story for another time.

All photo's on this post are property of Master M. Thank You Master M for sharing.

Lesson #2 Learning to beg for black domination

2010-11-07T20:42:00.000-08:00

Dreamer continues on her quest to become a BDSM porn star. I scheduled her for lesson #2 in my Slut 101 course. This lesson will be about her begging, obeying, and submitting to a Black Female Dominant. Some humiliation and degradation was also written into this lesson. Black slut shante practices her topping skills as a Domme under my direction. A lot of white females perceive their whiteness to be superior over the black female’s blackness. In this lesson I wanted to exploit that race superiority card and humble Dreamer by demanding her submission to a superior black female. She was taught about black dong sucking and her fat white cunt got some black strap-on. With me being a Black Dominant I enhanced her experience even more. In my opinion all that matters is her knowing her place and if it’s at the feet of a black slut so be it. That’s the lesson in a nutshell. The only rule that a sub needs to know is "Obey." Dreamer was used more intensely in this second lesson, luckily she remembered that a ultimate slut’s tongue ass belong deep in the ass of other sluts. She was ordered to do a lot of ass eating and did better than in lesson 1. She seems to be learning what is expected of a student of mine. No lesson is complete without a good spanking. With spanking normally comes tears and this session was no different. For me there is nothing like a crying bitch in mental confusion, it not always the physical pain that makes them cry but it helps. Let there be no misunderstanding to who was the big dog cause both of those sluts felt my hand hard on their asses.

After lesson #2 my student was ready for more intense play. I will teach lesson # 3 solo. My next post will reveal if this little girl has what it takes to become a successful graduate and my type of slut.

Lesson #1 When being a pain slut is not enough for me.

2010-11-02T12:48:00.000-07:00

On this blog you will see lots of video clips of me bringing a chubby white female to tears time and time again. I get asked all the time, “where did you find her?’. I didn’t find her; she came to me as the 24 year old property of a very sadistic Master who was a friend. By not ever safe wording with him many thought of her as a superior pain slut. Her Master thought of her as a trophy bitch needing to be more sexual. That’s where I came into the picture with my Slut 101 course. Originally she took the name Dreamer with the intention of becoming a BDSM porn star while she took slut training. With her background in being a pain slut I tailored her lessons to combine rough sex play and new kinky sex. Never before in her life had this Prima Donna got her fat ass beat and called dirty names while her tongue was forced into the ass of another female. Combined with the beating she was accustomed to, the new unfamiliar mental play overloaded her to tears and she safe worded for the first time in her life. In lesson #1 she was with a couple which the video depicts. I made her be more than just a pain slut, she clearly couldn’t handle the attack of mental play. She had been only trained to take physical pain. It was the psychological pain that was outside of her realm and it took her down, this was the first time but it would not be the last time it happens.

In my next post, lesson #2, I will talk about her submitting to a Black Female Dominant.

Welcome to Mental Play

2010-10-24T21:51:00.000-07:00

"Welcome to My Blog, I hope you become followers and check in often as new material is always in the works.